Actress Melissa Gilbert
is still vehemently refusing to admit it's possible
her disgraced husband Timothy Busfield committed the acts of sexual abuse he's accused of committing:
Melissa Gilbert contends she is “neither naive nor … complicit” having married and deciding to stand by her fellow actor Timothy Busfield amid numerous allegations of sexual misconduct, saying she exclusively has “heard his side of the story” and that it is “the truth”.
“I know this man in my bones,” the former Little House on the Prairie cast member remarked in an interview on Monday’s edition of Good Morning America. “No one knows him better than I do.” [...]
Gilbert told Stephanopoulos that she “talked to [Busfield] about it” before the pair embarked on their relationship – and she was satisfied with what he had to say.
“I am neither naive, nor am I complicit,” she said. “I talked to him about it; I asked him questions about it; I heard his side of the story – which no one [else] has ever heard, which is the truth.”
Gilbert said she anticipated Busfield would eventually share “the truth of these past allegations when he needs to”, though that time “is not now”.
“I know literally everything about him,” Gilbert also said. “He is nothing if not completely honest with me.
“He is an honorable, caring, generous human being.”
Blah, blah, blah. The problem is that, as an actor, Busfield seems quite the well-trained expert in concealing his dark side up to a point, and Gilbert is too. It sounds more like she's looking for every convenient excuse to defend him, right down to how she acts like it's virtually impossible for a husband to lie to his wife.
Phyllis Chesler had the following observation to make 2 years ago about cases like these:
Many feminist trauma-related researchers and clinicians have long noted that the mothers who are married to pedophiles, including biological fathers and stepfathers who pray on pre-adolescent girls, (or boys), invariably choose the predator over their own daughters; deny that such abuse ever happened; claim that the victims are lying; and if they concede sexual acts did occur, blame it on the child herself, who is portrayed as a seductive “homewrecker,” a Lolita, even if they are under 10 years old.
Such mothers also view themselves as the real victims; resent being forced to choose between a husband whom they love and/or between a husband’s much needed paycheck and the needs of a troublesome daughter. If anything, such mothers also tend to ostracize or even exile the reporting child if she insists on continuing to talk about it or if she demands that the mother protect her.
Many incest victims in therapy are far more wounded by their mother’s betrayal than they are by their father, stepfather, or older brother’s sexual abuse. They continue to suffer this maternal failure-to-protect even more than the sexual violence itself. In part, this is also due to our society’s holding mothers to much higher expectations and punishing them for failing even a little, not to mention a lot — as well as to our complicated discomfort about and fear of being re-victimized by police or judges when we dare accuse a male of intimate of sexual violence.
Gilbert sadly appears to fall into a similar category, and she's certainly proven the whole #MeToo movement was a failure in the long run. Interestingly, the UK Guardian article refers to her as an "actor" instead of "actress", apparently perpetuating a bizarre woke modern PC position that removes gendered differences in descriptions of men and women, even in showbiz performance. It may look insulting, yet when somebody like Gilbert takes the kind of repellent standings she is now, it's hard to feel sorry. Also note that,
as is told here, when Gilbert was at police headquarters, she acted angry, in contrast to how she acted during the GMA interview.
Anyway,
last month it was reported that the impending trial has cost the twosome much of their fortunes for paying legal bills:
Accused child molester Timothy Busfield is confident he'll be exonerated in court, but the finances of the former thirtysomething star – and Little House on the Prairie legend Melissa Gilbert – are taking a major hit as he fights to prove his innocence, RadarOnline.com can reveal.
The West Wing alum, 68, is reportedly worth $1million, while Gilbert, 61, is said to have $500,000 in assets.
Legal Nightmare Drains Actor’s Fortune
"This case has already cost him a fortune in legal fees. It'll run into many hundreds of thousands, and neither he nor Melissa are all that wealthy, at least not by Hollywood standards," an insider observed.
"He's already been canceled in the entertainment industry, regardless of the verdict, and they're looking at downsizing their home and retiring somewhere low-key and modest once this is eventually behind them."
Well boo hoo, go cry us an ocean. Harvey Weinstein's quite possibly lost even more, but in any event, those who commit offensive crimes have no business complaining about money, and don't deserve an ounce of it. It's also worth noting that, unlike Gilbert, when the news about Weinstein became public, the disgraced movie mogul's own wife left his side almost immediately. So why's Gilbert still making such an embarrassment of herself by contrast?
Over here, it's told that:
“I’ll let Larry get into the specifics of what happened with that part of the complaint,” Gilbert responded, turning to Busfield’s attorney, Larry Stein, who was interviewed alongside her.
“Tim did not give the boys gifts. Melissa gave them gifts,” Stein said. “Melissa gave them and every other child at a Christmas party a gift. Every child at the Christmas party. Not treating them special or different than anyone.”
And that proves beyond a reasonable doubt she wasn't involved in any kind of grooming tactic? Unfortunately, this does little to convince she knew nothing of what transpired in the past few years, or that she wasn't trying to employ a facade, and from what I noticed
on the IMDB about The Cleaning Lady, it looked like he only directed 6 episodes of a series that had little more than 42 episodes produced, and it could be asked, did he have the veto power to fire them from employment if he wasn't the only director in charge? If she knew about the accusations against him before they married, how did that not raise any red flags, and didn't she realize that with such serious accusations and prior charges against him, it would be ill-advised to take actions that could be seen as trying to persuade children to confide in her abusive husband? Sorry, but her lawyer's "defense" does nothing to disprove any of this.
And in
this article, the sob stories continue:
“What has this whole episode been like for you?” Stephanopoulos asks Gilbert, who replies, “Hell. This has been the most traumatizing experience of our lives.”
“Our life as we knew it is done,” she says. “We are grieving what we had — all of our plans, all of our dreams, all of our ideas, all of our projects. For Tim, it's done. He's canceled. Even if he's exonerated, he will always be that guy. [He’s] the last person in the world who would hurt a child. And believe me, if I thought for a second that Tim Busfield hurt a child, he'd have a lot more to worry about than prison.”
So Gilbert and Busfield are traumatized, but not his victims, huh? What was the whole point of that feud Gilbert was having with Megyn Kelly on Instagram if this is how she was going to abruptly change her positions when it came to her own third husband by contrast? On which note, she seems to have been married to Busfield longer than her 2 previous hubbies. Why? Is it because his ideological perspective is far more in sync with hers than the prior 2? I don't know, but one thing is clear. Gilbert may want to consider whether her own career is done, and come to think of it, it is, based on where she's going with Busfield. What's more, if he hopefully is convicted and incarcerated, then she'll be alone in the house for a while, and there's no use being sorry for her. She proved no better than countless other wives whose husbands turned out to be sex offenders yet refused to part ways with them, presumably because what money the abusive hubbies had was more important than justice and common sense.
Update: speaking of money, lest we forget, Gilbert recently launched a lifestyle brand called "Modern Prarie", and anybody who's a realist should boycott her brand, and not spend even a penny on it, lest it go to bankrolling Busfield's legal bills. To be sure, there's plenty of people already who're avoiding any association with whatever business Gilbert's running, so the needless brand she's running will hopefully have collapsed into the dust where it belongs.
Update 2: some more PR experts have commented on the case, and here's
one who told OK! magazine (via
Reality Tea) the following:
“There are several pitfalls that come with celebrities who go public defending their spouses when accused of crimes like child s-- abuse,” says Shari Botwin, LCSW and author of Stolen Childhoods: Thriving After Abuse. One is that “celebrities speaking up on behalf of their spouses reinforces the message that family loyalty takes precedence over the truth.”
Botwin warns that these kinds of statements can discourage survivors from coming forward and may lead to public backlash.
“Another problem with these types of statements is it often portrays the spouse as enabling or further colluding in the silence that comes with the aftermath of child s-- abuse,” she says.
“Melissa Gilbert is all over the place with her volatile reactions. Since [she] is a Hollywood celebrity as well, she makes news in her own right,” forensic psychiatrist Dr. Carole Lieberman points out.
“Even though she may be trying to protect him — and their children — her statements are not helpful to his case,” she says. “Emotion-laden defensive statements tend to make courts and the general public more suspicious that there is indeed something to hide.”
Botwin notes that “if her statement, for example, does not match the statement of her husband that could cause more questions and come up in cross-examination.”
The PR Tightrope
“A spouse’s response often shapes the media narrative more than the initial statement,” says Amore Philip, founder of Apples & Oranges Public Relations.
“A partner’s tone, timing, and wording can either stabilize the situation or escalate it,” Philip explains. “Downplaying allegations or appearing dismissive of potential victims can undermine credibility. Overly emotional or reactive responses may also generate distracting headlines.”
As Busfield’s case winds toward a scheduled May 2027 trial, Gilbert’s unwavering support may necessarily become more muted.
“Public figures often struggle to support a partner while protecting their own reputation,” Philip says. “Loyalty does not require public defense; it requires restraint.”
Unfortunately, that's not what Gilbert's been doing, and it's just too late for her to quiet down.
As the following indicates, she's practically shunning anybody who dares take issue with her loyalty to the creep:
According to insiders, the “Little House on the Prairie” star has taken on significant financial and personal strain, helping to cover “astronomical” legal costs while putting “many of her career plans on hold” to be by her husband, Busfield’s side.
She is also said to be “cutting anyone in their world who questions her or dares to suggest that she might want to take a step back and allow Timothy to fight his own battle.”
“This goes beyond loyalty,” the source told a news outlet. “It’s like she’s totally brainwashed by the guy, and God forbid how she’ll react if he doesn’t get cleared of these charges.”
Well if she's going to act that nuts, and vehemently refuses to recognize that truth can be stranger than fiction, then she doesn't deserve any further audience for her resume. A real shame too, obviously, but Gilbert's made herself yet another example of an ignorant wife who won't come to terms with how a husband can do repulsive things behind her back. Hopefully, Busfield will be convicted and imprisoned. It just remains to be seen then if Gilbert will be willing to accept reality. And even then, she'll be doing so awfully late.
Labels: misogyny, Moonbattery, msm foulness, sexual violence, showbiz, United States